Understanding the Limits of Acceptance Some phrases really get under your skin. For me, “it is what it is” has always been one of them. People often say it with good intentions. Maybe they want to sound calm, accepting, or realistic. But for many—myself included—the phrase can feel like a door closing. It can sound as if … Read more
Strength That Made Me Stronger Than I Thought I do not have one clear moment when I realised I was stronger than I thought. There was no dramatic turning point. No single day where I stood back and said, “Now I know I am strong.” Life has not worked that way for me. Strength has arrived … Read more
The simple pleasure of friendship still brings me the purest joy. It sounds ordinary, but it feels rare now. When I was young, it happened so naturally. We’d drift outside and somehow find each other on the street. We laughed, wandered, and lingered until the day faded. There were no calendars or reminders—just being together. These days, … Read more
The benefits of walking became real to me when I stopped thinking about exercise as something that had to be big or intense. Walking felt doable. It fit into my day. Now I walk at lunchtime whenever the weather allows, and that small habit has become one of the most reliable parts of my regular … Read more
When people ask me to describe an ideal life, I picture something quieter than a dream house or a perfect calendar. I picture inner peace with God. I picture a heart that rests in love. From that place, I can respond to others with freedom, not hunger. I know what it feels like to chase the … Read more
Mentors in the Single Life: Learning to Listen Beyond Myself I have been single all my life. I am now 51, and I accept that I may remain so. That reality shapes how I live, decide, and reflect. It is also why mentors in the single life have become essential to me. When you walk alone for … Read more
I keep coming back to Jesus’ invitation in Matthew 11:28: “Come to me, all you who labour and are heavy-laden… and I will cause you to rest.” In a world that celebrates hustle and self-reliance, learning to rest in Christ can feel almost countercultural. But Jesus’ words remind me of something deeply human: we all get weary, … Read more
It’s so easy to get swept up in our daily routines, especially when exhaustion sets in, and all we want is the comfort of home. The other night, I was reminded just how human that feeling is when I found myself thinking about a missed opportunity to help—it’s something that can weigh on anyone’s mind. … Read more
There’s something quietly radical in that old verse that says we’re worth “more than many sparrows.” For a long time, I thought of it as just a pretty idea meant for someone else. In my own mind, the math almost never worked out. I spent years wrestling with self-worth—feeling less like someone special and more … Read more
Finding Meaning in My Three Everyday Essentials Life can sometimes feel overwhelming with all its noise and clutter. So, I recently took a moment to reflect on what really matters to me. When I stripped away the excess, I was left with three everyday essentials that shape who I am: identity, connection, and freedom. These … Read more
As a printing business owner, I often reflect on the experiences that have truly shaped who I am. While formal education and training have certainly played their part, nothing compares to the lessons I’ve learned from running my own printing business, Splash Colour Imaging. The ups and downs, the unexpected challenges, and the small wins … Read more
The Low-Rider Who Lifted My Spirits was a Dashshund who changed my life. They say money can’t buy happiness, but it can buy a pair of floppy ears and a tail that never stops wagging. Since Milo, my miniature Dachshund, entered my life, I’ve learned that life with a Doxie is never boring. He’s transformed … Read more